Benefits for the senior
Stay at home longer and keep autonomy.
Reduce isolation, especially in the evening, thanks to a friendly presence.
Delay moving to an institution by supporting ageing at home.
Reassure family with regular presence at home.
Intergenerational flatsharing & cohabitation
Living with a senior with a free or reduced rent in exchange for presence or help: a solidarity-based solution where everyone benefits.
Intergenerational housing, flatsharing and cohabitation
Intergenerational housing refers to housing arrangements designed to welcome several generations (students, families, older people).
Intergenerational flatsharing means offering a young person (student, apprentice, professional) a room, in exchange for presence and/or help, with one or more seniors.
Intergenerational cohabitation means living under the same roof: a senior hosts someone (for free or at a reduced rent) in return for services (presence, conversation, gardening, small tasks, etc.).
Benefits of intergenerational living
A win-win solution: more human, more reassuring, often simpler.
Benefits for everyone
Find housing more easily, often close to transport and amenities.
Pay less (or be hosted for free) thanks to services provided.
Enjoy a calm environment while keeping friendly interaction.
Keep the possibility to study or work alongside cohabitation.
Intergenerational flatsharing in practice
Intergenerational flatsharing is based on a simple idea: enabling a senior to stay at home longer, while offering a young person (student, apprentice or professional) a more affordable housing option.
In practice, a senior provides a room or part of their home in exchange for a reassuring presence and possibly small everyday services (occasional help, shopping, gardening, friendly conversations).
This model of senior–young cohabitation addresses two major needs: fighting social isolation among older people and improving access to housing for young adults, especially in high-demand areas.
Depending on the agreement, accommodation can be offered for free or with a reduced rent. Conditions are defined in a clear framework, ensuring a balanced and safe relationship for both sides.
At ToitChezMoi, intergenerational cohabitation is built on trust, transparency and respect, with practical resources to support both parties.
Home sharing for services for seniors
If you choose housing in exchange for services, we recommend signing an agreement or contract that clearly defines each person’s commitments.
The host provides a dedicated room with appropriate comfort. The guest agrees on days/hours of presence, possible services, and the split of rent/charges where applicable.
Host and guest share a common mindset: conviviality and solidarity.
Contract templates
We provide flatsharing agreements and inventory templates.
Premium
An “au pair employee” contract template is available with a Premium subscription.
Trust & secure framework
Intergenerational shared housing works best when the framework is clear and respected. We recommend formalising a written agreement (duration, presence, services, house rules, expenses) and maintaining open communication.
Respect & privacy: a dedicated room, shared rules and clear boundaries.
Safety: best practices before and during cohabitation.
Commitments: a shared ethical framework for trust.
Intergenerational shared housing: a human and accessible solution
Intergenerational shared housing allows a senior to stay at home longer while benefiting from a reassuring presence, and enables a young person to access affordable accommodation.
At ToitChezMoi, this model is based on solidarity, a clear framework and predefined house rules, ensuring a balanced and peaceful experience for both generations.
Frequently asked questions
How many service hours can be requested? +
On ToitChezMoi, the maximum is 15 hours of services. We recommend formalizing the agreement (services, schedule, duration) for a clear framework.
Do I need to pay anything before visiting the accommodation? +
No. You should never be asked to pay anything to “reserve” a place before meeting the host and visiting the accommodation. If someone insists, this is a warning sign—please report the profile immediately.
What is intergenerational cohabitation? +
Intergenerational cohabitation brings together people from different generations, often in exchange for services or presence.
It promotes social connection while meeting practical needs for housing and reassurance.
Where can I find the terms, privacy policy and code of conduct? +
These pages explain the platform rules, data protection and community commitments.
Can I bring someone with me when visiting the accommodation? +
Yes—this is recommended if it helps you feel more comfortable. Just let the host know in advance. Having someone with you can also help you keep perspective.
What level of presence is expected? +
Presence should be clearly defined and remain reasonable, compatible with each person’s lifestyle.
If the number of hours becomes too high, the framework should be reviewed.
Are profiles verified on ToitChezMoi? +
ToitChezMoi encourages members to complete their profiles and communicate before meeting. Clear descriptions, photos and conversations help you feel more confident before committing.
What should I do if I feel uncomfortable during co-living? +
Feeling uncomfortable is a valid reason to speak up. If you feel safe doing so, start by discussing it with your host or cohabitant. If the situation doesn’t improve, contact ToitChezMoi and review your agreement to understand your exit options.
Frequently Asked Questions
How many service hours can be requested? +
On ToitChezMoi, the maximum is 15 hours of services. We recommend formalizing the agreement (services, schedule, duration) for a clear framework.
Do I need to pay anything before visiting the accommodation? +
No. You should never be asked to pay anything to “reserve” a place before meeting the host and visiting the accommodation. If someone insists, this is a warning sign—please report the profile immediately.
What is intergenerational cohabitation? +
Intergenerational cohabitation brings together people from different generations, often in exchange for services or presence.
It promotes social connection while meeting practical needs for housing and reassurance.
Where can I find the terms, privacy policy and code of conduct? +
These pages explain the platform rules, data protection and community commitments.
Can I bring someone with me when visiting the accommodation? +
Yes—this is recommended if it helps you feel more comfortable. Just let the host know in advance. Having someone with you can also help you keep perspective.
What level of presence is expected? +
Presence should be clearly defined and remain reasonable, compatible with each person’s lifestyle.
If the number of hours becomes too high, the framework should be reviewed.
Are profiles verified on ToitChezMoi? +
ToitChezMoi encourages members to complete their profiles and communicate before meeting. Clear descriptions, photos and conversations help you feel more confident before committing.
What should I do if I feel uncomfortable during co-living? +
Feeling uncomfortable is a valid reason to speak up. If you feel safe doing so, start by discussing it with your host or cohabitant. If the situation doesn’t improve, contact ToitChezMoi and review your agreement to understand your exit options.