How does ToitChezMoi work?

ToitChezMoi supports housing in exchange for services: find a host or a guest, communicate with confidence and formalise your agreement.

You are…

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Host

  1. 1. Post your listing and describe your accommodation and conditions.

  2. 2. Browse guests looking in your area.

  3. 3. Upgrade to Premium if needed to message guests without limits.

  4. 4. Welcome your guest and start the housing-for-services arrangement.

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Guest

  1. 1. Create your profile and list the services you can provide.

  2. 2. Search by location, dates and preferences.

  3. 3. Upgrade to Premium if needed to message hosts without limits.

  4. 4. Get to know each other, then move into your new place.

You want to…

Exchange a room for a service

Log in to ToitChezMoi.com and describe what you need: childcare, coaching, small repairs, pet care, occasional presence, etc.

Complete your profile, describe your accommodation and set the duration of the offer. To improve your chances, add photos.

To contact all guests, you can choose a Premium plan. View Premium plans .

After meeting, we strongly recommend formalising an agreement to define the framework of your arrangement.

Get a room with a host

Log in to ToitChezMoi.com and complete your profile. Highlight your skills and add a photo—this increases your chances of being contacted.

Interested in some hosts? Contact them through the platform. To contact all hosts, you can choose a Premium plan. View Premium plans .

After meeting, ensure the room meets a minimum standard and ideally has a lockable door for privacy. Then formalise an agreement.

Safety & trust

For a smooth co-living experience, we recommend reading our ethical charter (community rules) and our safety guide (best practices before and during cohabitation).

Need help? Check the FAQ or contact us via support.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is ToitChezMoi? +

ToitChezMoi is a platform connecting people who offer accommodation with people looking for a place to live and able to provide services. The website lets members create a profile, publish or browse listings and start a conversation before any cohabitation begins.

ToitChezMoi is not a party to the contract agreed between members. The platform facilitates the connection, provides practical guidance and encourages a written framework, but the host and the cohabitant remain responsible for the commitments they make together.

How do I sign up as a host? +

To sign up as a host, create an account and choose the “I offer accommodation” path. Then complete your profile and describe the accommodation, accessible spaces, intended duration, house rules and any expected services.

A clear listing helps the future cohabitant understand the framework quickly: location, type of home, available room, possible charges, requested services, approximate schedule and human expectations.

How can I find home-for-services accommodation? +

Start by entering your city or search area, then review available listings. Read the description carefully: accommodation, requested services, duration, house rules and host information.

Before contacting a host, make sure your profile is complete. A polite, precise and personalised message works better than a generic request. Briefly explain your situation, availability and the services you can genuinely provide.

What is home-for-services? +

Home-for-services means making a room, studio or part of a home available in return for services agreed in advance. These services may include presence, occasional help, school pick-up, tutoring, shopping, gardening or other small services suited to the situation.

The key point is balance. The services must remain reasonable, compatible with the cohabitant’s personal or professional life, and should not create an unclear situation. A written agreement should specify duration, schedules, spaces provided, house rules and exit conditions.

How do I sign up as a cohabitant? +

To sign up as a cohabitant, create an account and choose the “I am looking for accommodation” path. Fill in your profile, search area, availability, skills and the services you can reasonably offer.

Do not promise too much just to obtain accommodation. A good profile states what you can do, what you do not want to do, your study or work constraints and your expectations regarding privacy and house rules.

How do I contact a host? +

Open the listing you are interested in, read the conditions again and use the contact button to send a message. Your first message should show that you understood the listing and that your profile may match the need expressed.

Avoid very short messages such as “available?”. Prefer a simple introduction: who you are, why the accommodation interests you, your availability, your skills and any useful questions before a visit or deeper exchange.